About Asperger Relationships
Neurodiverse couples in which one partner has Aspergers can be particularly challenging because each partner has a different way of perceiving the world, processing information, and communicating.
Asperger traits are not good or bad, but when the two members of a couple experience their internal and external worlds in such different ways, the difference can create conflict.
How Asperger Traits Affect Neurodivese Couples
These are the main areas that the partner with Aspergers struggles with:
• Intimacy and Emotional Connection
• Communication (listening and speaking)
• Social Behavior
• Sensory Issues
• Developmental Delay
• Obsessive Thoughts
• Executive Function
• Slow Cognitive Processing
Common conflicts expressed by the spouses/partners of adults with Asperger’s include:
• I don’t feel an emotional closeness with my partner.
• My partner and I can't communicate.
• My partner is very smart but seems to lack common sense.
• My partner doesn’t initiate or follow through with household chores; I have to manage everything.
• My partner has a collection that take over the house.
• My partner and I can't go out socially as a couple
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